Living in Maryborough
We children travelled in the back of the
utility when we moved to Maryborough. Two wire mattresses formed a tent above
us(I suppose they were covered with something water proof) and the mattresses
were in the back for us to sit on. Marion, Jean, Ian and I were in the back,
and Bob in the front with Mum and Dad. Our new home was a lovely big house on
five acres of fertile ground at the Island Plantation in Maryborough. There was
a creek that ran in a U shape all round the paddock. Water hyacinths grew in
the water hole at one end of it and we found that the solid looking mass of
green sank into the water when we tried to pick the flowers.
My parents bought a house cow, a
very quiet jersey. She was an embarrassment to me though because I was sent to
bring her home. She saw me come and headed straight for me. I turned tail and
ran, with the cow serenely following me home to be milked. (I would have been
about six then).
St Helen’s school had been closed
because it was too close to the airport to be safe if the Japs decided to bomb
us, and school was held in the local church hall. Again it was a one teacher
school all classes in one room. Most of the children were called Baumgart. There were
several families of them and when they discussed who would be a girl or boy
friend, the criterion was that you could marry a second cousin, but not a first
cousin. John Baumgart was a down syndrome boy and I was afraid of him. Neil
Baumgart was in my class and I got on well with him. I don’t remember any of
the girls. Sunday school was held in the same hall, and the couple who ran it
also ran a lolly shop. At the end of the year they held a break up affair when
the parents all came. I had to act the part of a poor man, and was asked to
bring an old coat to wear. The one my mother supplied was not ragged enough so I
had to wear it inside out. Of course there were lollies for us kids then.
Later the St Helen’s school was
opened and Mr Crampton was the teacher. He was very strict. We had to march
into school after a parade in which we always recited,
“I honour my God,
I serve the king,
I salute the flag” with a
military style salute. Every one had to get the right foot on the bottom step
as we marched into school. We had little cowrie shells for counters as we
learned our tables and did our sums. We had plasticine for one lesson a week.
It was brown and hard. My mother brought a stick of green plasticine and I
asked to take it to school. I was allowed to take half. Mr Crampton thought
that was a great idea, and encouraged the other children to bring their own.
The result was that they all had a full stick, while I still had a half.
The Island Plantation was a
lovely spot for us children, but it was no good for Dad’s asthma. He was
working for Mr Gillham building houses at Granville, and was okay at work, but
got sick when he came home. So we moved to Granville and lived in a rented
house. Mum hated it. To get in to the house we had to go under the house to the
kitchen which was at the back, then go upstairs to the bedrooms and living
room. With five children running in and out over the dirt all day the house was
never clean! Dad rigged a swing from the rafters so that we could swing in that
under the house part.
It meant another change of
school, to the Granville school. It was while we were living at Granville
that I learned to ride a bike. Marion
was the one who taught me, running along holding the back of the seat until I
mastered the balance of it. I was immensely proud of the achievement when I
could ride to school. One of by brothers (I think it was Ian) was getting
doubles when he got his foot caught between the chain and the back sprocket,
causing serious damage to his foot. Mum was cleaning the wounds to loud
weeping, not from the patient, but from his brother (that would be Bob, if I’m
right about Ian)
Dad bought a house at Arrammara
and took it down and put it up again in Sussex Street . He preferred not to move
the house intact, because he liked to have all the walls straight and square.
He chose Sussex Street
because it was close to the hospital and his asthma had cleared up when he went
to the hospital. Mum said we would move in as soon as it had a roof and a
stove. She was very keen to leave the Granville house. So we did move in and
Dad finished building the house around us. I remember seeing him fix the weights
to the windows in the breakfast room before lining it with boards which had
once been floor board but which he had made tongue and grooved. The kitchen and
breakfast room made an L shape - part of what had once been a verandah all
round the house.
From here we went to the Maryborough West School .
I started here in Prep 4, which was the second year of school. I didn’t settle
in well. I had had so many changes of school that I was just waiting for the
next one, so it took a while to register that this was more permanent.
The following year when I was in Grade
1 I had a traumatic experience. Miss Oliver was very strict about neat work,
but my hand/eye coordination was very poor and my work was not up to standard.
We were on my least favourite lesson – copybooks – when she said, “you’ll have
to do better work than that or I’ll take you round to the headmaster.”
I panicked.
“no, no, no no!” I screamed,
hanging on with both hands to the desk in front of me, “I won’t go!”
It had probably been an empty
threat, but she could not allow open defiance, so she grabbed my arm and
marched me to the headmaster, who was in front of Grade five, the highest grade
in the school, and my sister Marion’s class. I was putting out my hand for the
cuts, but Mr Fletcher asked why I wasn’t doing neater work.
I replied that I was bumped by my
seat mate, an outright lie, the truth was that I was doing the best I could,
which wasn’t very good. Marion
reported the story at home, and said they were all laughing at me for putting
out my hand.
Miss Oliver never forgot me. She
taught both Ian and Bob, but whenever she saw Mum down the street she always
asked about me, never about the boys.
Another embarrassment in Grade 1
was a lesson in the reading book about a baby koala whose mother had been
killed by hunters. The little koala cried just like a baby. I cried too, much
to the scorn of the boys in the class.
When I was in Grade 4 I joined
the fife band. Mum was reluctant to let me join but Aunty Agnes was visiting
and encouraged the idea. I had a red dress at last, the band uniform. I had
pleaded for a red dress earlier in my life, but after Mum bought the material
she decided the colour didn’t suit me, and I ended up with a navy blue, and Marion had the red as a
skirt with straps, as there was not enough material for a full dress for her. However
the uniform was a darker red and suited me quite well.
One Easter the band came to Brisbane , and we played
at various venues, including a children's home. It was my first experience of a
big city, and we had a trip to Lone Pine, playing for the customers on the
boat, and seeing koalas. The roses in New Farm Park impressed me too, and I had my
first taste of coca cola. When we came home we all had to write an account of
the trip. I think that only two of us, myself and the teacher’s son actually
completed the task. We were declared joint winners.
By this time I was an avid
reader, and one afternoon Mr Fletcher found me in the school library deep in a
book at five O’clock in the afternoon. He sent me off home of course, but the
following year when the School
of Arts library offered
the school two bursaries, Mr Fletcher awarded one to me. “Because I know you
will use it.” I was able to ride my bike to the library in town and borrow one
book at a time for free. My mother limited me to one book a week, because she
thought I was cross when I came out of my book back into the real world.
I was still going to this school
when Bob got sick. The doctor said, “Polio,” so he was admitted to the
isolation ward at the Maryborough
Base Hospital .
The doctor there disagreed and told my mother he thought it was tetanus. “We
can treat him for tetanus, but not for polio.” Mum asked us all to pray for
Bob, as he was critically ill. He recovered but was in hospital with no
visitors for quite some time. He asked for “pineapple drink” so Mum boiled up
pineapple skins with sugar and took it up to him. I had the job of buying an
ice-cream at Meridith’s shop across the street from the hospital and handing it
to the nurse at the isolation ward each morning on my way to school.
It was while we lived in
Maryborough that Lex was born, and six moths before we left, when I was thirteen, Neil came along. I really enjoyed looking after these little ones, and taking
them for rides in the pram.
I was not a particularly nice
child at this time of my life. I often teased my sister Jean, using my knife to
reflect sun into her eyes by “accident”, among other things. When it was time
for washing up I usually managed to be nowhere to be found. I didn’t do my set
homework of learning spelling and tables, so often got my sums wrong, (how I
hated long division, and long multiplication) and I misspelled words in my
compositions, although they were quite good in other respects. These faults were
not really overcome until I started teaching spelling and tables. It was then that my
handwriting also came up to scratch when I had to write in big letters on the
black board for the children to copy.
In Mundubbera we had correspondence
Sunday School lessons from the Presbyterian Church, taught by Mum. I vaguely
remember doing some colouring while she talked to Marion and Jean. When we were
going to Sunday School at the Island Plantation and also at Granville Mum was
disappointed that we were not learning scripture by heart. She rode a bike to St
Stephen’s Presbyterian Church and got some little books of memory work. When we had learned
to say all the verses in the book she gave us each a King James Bible. When we
moved to Sussex Street
we rode the length of the street on our push bikes to Sunday School.
Each year we had a Sunday school picnic at Pialba. We went there on a special train and everyone wanted Mr McPhail to sit in their carriage. He was great fun and would have us singing choruses all the way there.
It was at a Sunday School picnic that I won the one and only race I ever won in my life. Every other race I ever went in, running or swimming, I came in last. We had a three legged race, and the teacher partnered me with a lass who really could run. So my left ankle was tied to her right one and she put her arm around my waist and pulled me along the race track. I had never run so fast in all my life. Our prize was a covered coat hanger each.
The Sunday School gave marks for attendance, memory work, church attendance, (we had a ‘Young Worshipper’s League’ booklet, and were given a sticker as we went into church. We stayed for the first part of the service, then went home before the sermon), and for an annual exam. I usually managed to score at least one book prize at the end of the year. However none of this really impacted much on my life.
The change came when I was about twelve years old and someone told me scornfully, “you’re not a Christian, you tell lies.”
Each year we had a Sunday school picnic at Pialba. We went there on a special train and everyone wanted Mr McPhail to sit in their carriage. He was great fun and would have us singing choruses all the way there.
It was at a Sunday School picnic that I won the one and only race I ever won in my life. Every other race I ever went in, running or swimming, I came in last. We had a three legged race, and the teacher partnered me with a lass who really could run. So my left ankle was tied to her right one and she put her arm around my waist and pulled me along the race track. I had never run so fast in all my life. Our prize was a covered coat hanger each.
The Sunday School gave marks for attendance, memory work, church attendance, (we had a ‘Young Worshipper’s League’ booklet, and were given a sticker as we went into church. We stayed for the first part of the service, then went home before the sermon), and for an annual exam. I usually managed to score at least one book prize at the end of the year. However none of this really impacted much on my life.
The change came when I was about twelve years old and someone told me scornfully, “you’re not a Christian, you tell lies.”
I realised that this was true on
both counts, and went off by myself and really prayed for the first time in my
life. The prayer went something like, “God I want to be a Christian, if you
will have me!” I was certain that His answer was “Yes!” Some time later we had a
visiting evangelist come to preach in our church. At the end of his sermon he
invited anyone who wished to give his/her life to Jesus to come to the front.
Much to the horror of my mother, who did not approve of this style of teaching,
I got up and walked to the front. Later my sister Marion gave me a book of
daily Bible readings saying, “I found this helpful for me.” So began my walk
with the Lord.
One of the changes I noticed was
that I stopped telling deliberate lies. One afternoon I came home to find an oven tray full of Anzac biscuits on the kitchen table. I helped myself to two biscuits and a cup of milk. When Mum came home there were no biscuits left.
"Who ate all the biscuits?"
Instead of saying "Not me!" I said, "I had two."
Then the other children all piped up. "I had two." "I had three"
"Oh, well," said Mum, "If you all had some, that is okay. That's what they were for."
Also I discovered that if I picked up a tea towel when Mum was washing up I got her all to myself and we could have a good chat. My life definitely improved for the better.
"Who ate all the biscuits?"
Instead of saying "Not me!" I said, "I had two."
Then the other children all piped up. "I had two." "I had three"
"Oh, well," said Mum, "If you all had some, that is okay. That's what they were for."
Also I discovered that if I picked up a tea towel when Mum was washing up I got her all to myself and we could have a good chat. My life definitely improved for the better.
When I finished Grade 5 I left Maryborough
West and went to the Maryborough
Girls State
High School . Apart from
the Domestic Science school in Brisbane , I think
this was the only Girl’s State High School in Queensland .
There had been two private schools the Girls’ Grammar on one side of Kent Street and the
Boys’ grammar on the other side. When the state government took over the
schools the lady teachers at the girl’s school did not want to teach boys, so
it was left as a girl’s school until they had retired. We had very good
teachers at that school. My teacher for the next two years was Miss St Ledger,
and I was in a class of 48 girls. On the first day when I had finished the set
sums, I took my book out to her at the front of the class. We were seated in
order of ability, best marks at the back, lowest marks at the front of the
room. I said, “I have finished,”
She said, “are they all right?”
“I don’t know”
“Well go and ask your mates at
the back of the room. Compare your answers and see where you have made
mistakes. I have to get all these girls through the scholarship exam.” She gestured
at the two front seats.
It was the best lesson anyone
ever taught me at school. We formed a study group and helped each other all the
way through high school, not only improving our school work but building strong
friendships at well. The scholarship was an external exam and passing it
entitled us to two more years of schooling. Then the next hurdle was Junior, if
we passed that we could go on to Senior. I really enjoyed going to this school
and formed some great friendships there.
In our free time in Maryborough
we were really free. We made cubbies in the nearby “bush” – vacant allotments
which had been cleared but regrown with lots of young saplings. One type (box, I
later learned) was easily broken and made great huts. We rode our bikes all
over the place and when a fire had gone through the bush we boiled a billy over
a burning log and roasted potatoes in the ashes. One day we rode our bikes as
far as Torbanlea. Marion and Jean and I, and probably Ian and Bob too I think.
We counted it a great achievement.
Dad was building at his time,
first in partnership and later on his own. We had some great holidays. One was
at Urraween, part way to the Bay (I think the house belonged to Dad’s partner).
There were lots of lane ways lined with bushes in which we found nests of
double-bars (finches with two stripes under the chin). There was an abandoned
quarry which made a great play ground and was full of wild raspberries.
Another year we rented a house at Point
Vernon, while the owners were away. We found oysters on the rocks – I would
have one or two then feed the rest to my brothers. I thought they tasted like
snot, and still don’t enjoy them.
After that Dad was building a ‘spec’
house on land he had bought at Pialba. We camped in the garage on bunks which
Dad made along the walls, and Mum and Dad were in the caravan next door. On Christmas
Eve we hung up our stockings (old ones of Mum’s with ladders in them) and put our
presents for Mum and Dad in a small port with a message. ”Dear Santa, please
leave these at the caravan next door”
The following year this house had been
finished, but the one next to it was in progress and we slept there on
mattresses on the floor. That year we brought home a sapling for a Christmas
tree. Dad and Mr Christian (who was living across the road) went off and found
a better one - a she oak that looked like a Christmas tree. We decorated it with
paper streamers and plums which looked like the decorations we had seen in
shops. We all brought presents for each other and put them on the tree. The
next morning we waited until after breakfast then all sat round and opened
presents one by one. Dad said he liked it this way, because he got to see us
all opening our presents. So from then on it was a Christmas tree in our
family, rather than hanging up stockings. So now you will realise that this is
a custom that I borrowed from my parents!
Again we roamed freely. Ian and
Bob and I rode bikes up to Urraween to revisit our old haunts. We had half a
pineapple each, and bread and butter and treacle for lunch. By the time we had
eaten the pineapples, we found that the treacle stung our tongues, so finished
with just bread and butter. Another time we followed a dirt road through the
bush and ended up at Eli
Creek . We came back by
the beach, but when I was running through long grass I stood on a broken bottle
and cut my foot badly – I still have the scar. Dad took me to the doctor who
stitched and dressed the cut. He asked Dad if he wanted me to have a tetanus
injection. Dad said, “Yes please, we nearly lost one child with tetanus.”
Soon after this we left Maryborough for Tiaro.
Mum said that either her yard was full of all the neighbourhood children, or
else she didn’t know where her kids were. Dad said he was raising a lot of
townies. His boys didn’t know how to ride a horse or milk a cow. Mum and Dad
started looking for a farm and found it at Tiaro. But that is another story.